I have had many different reason to post about this before but I believe that now the bucket is overflowing and I can’t take it anymore.
Anyone that knows me, knows very well that I have no issues expressing myself and my feelings towards a situation. With that being said, I do however refrain A LOT when it comes to family. Why? I don’t know. But I do.
Has that helped me in any way? Nope. So why do I do it? No freaking clue.
I grew up with this idea that no matter what happens family is family and there is nothing you can do about it. NOTHING.
Then I moved to the US and I learned a very different way of living life. What I mean by this is, here in the US we are allowed to choose happiness above all. We are allowed to surround ourselves with whatever makes us happy and whatever helps us achieve happiness.
And you know what? I freaking LOVE that. So dear friends and family, if you are a toxic entity in my life, you probably don’t hear from me at all. Or if you have, it was probably to let you know that I don’t care for you and you are not welcomed around me or my children for one reason or another.
Recent events surrounding those who I love have set my skin on fire. I am beyond ticked off for so many reasons I can’t even put into words.
Here’s what I’m going to say though. If you don’t treat those who I love nicely for whatever reason you feel justifies such behavior, then you are NOT going to be part of our lives.
I don’t care who you are. If you are toxic, you are OUT!
If I could speak my mind to those who have come after the ones I love (without causing more trouble for my loved ones) this is what I would say.
It is very heart-rending to watch how sad you chose to live your life. Is is honestly very very sad.
The fact that you purposely make every little thing into an argument and a fight shows me how low you allow yourself to go. And the fact that you chose others around you as a weapon it is honestly the lowest low I have ever witnessed.
Those that really knows our family, are fully aware how material things and monetary value means NOTHING to us. So please, do yourself a favor and do not even try to use that as a punch because it will only make yourself look foolish.
So dear toxic family person, I’m sorry but I can no longer sit on the sideline and watch you hurt someone I love. Until you can figure out a way to be less toxic you simply can’t be a part of our happiness.
To this other individual who hurts yet another member of my family whom I love. Your many years of manipulation might work with some people, but it does NOT work with me. Consider yourself lucky that I am not right there to let you have a piece of my mind, because you know I would.
Somehow we have come to a point where being different for whatever reason is not acceptable. Where showing concern over a situation becomes a personal attack. That is all sad.
For me, part of being happy, mean surrounding yourself with those who will heighten your life and your pursuit of happiness.
Having negativity around you all of the time only attracts even more negativity.
Let’s be happy. Let’s try and be happy.
Let’s be done with hate.